{"id":1314,"date":"2008-08-16T06:31:00","date_gmt":"2008-08-16T10:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/2008\/08\/16\/friday-night-happy-birthday-pa\/"},"modified":"2008-08-16T06:31:00","modified_gmt":"2008-08-16T10:31:00","slug":"friday-night-happy-birthday-pa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/2008\/08\/16\/friday-night-happy-birthday-pa\/","title":{"rendered":"Friday night &#8211; Happy birthday Pa !"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div id=\"pBlogBody_424625189\" class=\"blogContent\">\n<center><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\">First things first.. I&#8217;d like to wish a very happy birthday to my dear pa Hugh.. 78 years old today and looking good !  Happy Birthday Dad !<\/p>\n<p><\/div>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/aug1508\/pa.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\">Not a whole lot to report today.. One observation was that it was friggin&#8217; cold this morning <br \/>when we went for a run. Even stranger was the look of some of the trees as I drove in and home from work.. What can this mean ?!  It couldn&#8217;t be.. could it ?! <\/div>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/aug1508\/aug1508001.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/aug1508\/aug1508006.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/aug1508\/aug1508009.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/aug1508\/aug1508013.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\">Work was busy and productive.. Not much to report there. One good thing that happened today was that I ran into a friend of mine who lost a child many years ago. This was the first time we&#8217;d ever really talked to each other about grieving and healing. I was telling her how mad I get at myself sometimes for letting myself get stressed and frustrated at work . She re-framed this for me a bit by telling me a story she&#8217;d heard at a Compassionate Friends meeting. A woman there told a story about going to work after a tragic loss and hearing a co-worker complain about her dishwasher. The woman was angry and sad that her coworker was complaining about such a trivial thing to her. Several years later&#8230; the same woman had a similar problem with <i>her<\/i> dishwasher.. She too found herself frustrated and complained about it to a co-worker.. She caught herself doing it and started to feel bad for her loss of perspective.. Then a light bulb went off in her head.. she realized it  was actually a sign of how far she&#8217;d gotten in her healing that her loss no longer overshadowed everything else&#8230;   <\/p>\n<p>I thought about that story all day&#8230; soemthing about it resonated.. soemthing about it didn&#8217;t.. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div align=\"left\">Anyway.. the rest of the story was all work and no play. I did have a late afternoon mentoring meeting at Mexecali.. but still had a bunch of work to do. I couldn&#8217;t bring myself to drive back to work on such a nice day.. At the same time, I knew that if I headed home, I wouldn&#8217;t finish what I needed to do. I compromised.. I stopped at a starbucks and worked there for a couple of hours .. I&#8217;ve only seen people do that in movies&#8230;   But here I am  <i>in an actual starbucks ! (and I don&#8217;t even drink coffee !) <\/i><\/div>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/aug1508\/aug1508004.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/aug1508\/aug1508005.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\">I don&#8217;t go into many Starbucks.. bt this sign on the back exit made me really wonder&#8230; I couldn&#8217;t figure this out ? What do you think ? Vampires ? <\/div>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/aug1508\/aug1508003.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\">I got home around 6:30.. and we immediately left for Tim and Jens&#8217; We were making Samstonesto give to all the kids who are goign off to college and for me and Max to take to burng man&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Tim cooked  .. we ate<\/div>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/aug1508\/aug1508010.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\">Then we all sat down and made 50 pounds of SamStoens in record short time&#8230; It was really fun..   One cool thing about this picture is that my camera had run ot of batteries.. I treidseveral times to get at least one shot of the SamStone making.. but no luck.. I thengot the idea to take the battery out of the camera and warm it under my shirt.. I did that for abotu 10 minutes.. and beleive it or not.. that etra warmth gave it enough ooooomph for this one last shot&#8230;<\/div>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/aug1508\/aug1508015.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\">Speaking of ooomph.. mines flagging. Time for bed.. More tomorrow. Gnite all.\/ gnite Sam !<br \/>-me<\/div>\n<p><\/center>\n<\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>First things first.. I&#8217;d like to wish a very happy birthday to my dear pa Hugh.. 78 years old today and looking good ! Happy Birthday Dad ! Not a whole lot to report today.. One observation was that it was friggin&#8217; cold this morning when we went for a run. Even stranger was the &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/2008\/08\/16\/friday-night-happy-birthday-pa\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Friday night &#8211; Happy birthday Pa !<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1314","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1314","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1314"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1314\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1314"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1314"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1314"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}