{"id":1445,"date":"2009-10-03T00:09:00","date_gmt":"2009-10-03T04:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/2009\/10\/03\/friday-night-little-by-little\/"},"modified":"2009-10-03T00:09:00","modified_gmt":"2009-10-03T04:09:00","slug":"friday-night-little-by-little","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/2009\/10\/03\/friday-night-little-by-little\/","title":{"rendered":"Friday night &#8211; little by little"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div id=\"pBlogBody_512706701\" class=\"blogContent\">\n<center><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\">\n<p>The show&#8217;s finale last week marked one of\u00a0 the peaks of unnormalcy in my life.. Now Little by little, my life is getting back to some semblance of routine.\u00a0 I wake up, run, go to work, come home.\u00a0 eat, blog sleep in a pleasantly predictable rhythm.\u00a0 Not every conversation or email is about The Colony anymore..\u00a0 There are still many echos.. every day a coupe of more old friends reconnect after having seen the show, a few more folks want to hear stories.. a few new offers for talks\/interviews.. but fewer of each every day.. It good to move on.. and at the same time I miss it..<\/p><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\">A couple of echos today.. I did two work talks on my experience on the show.. one was to a group of folks in a work area near my own.. there were about 50 folks here in VT.. then others scattered all over.. india, bulgaria. texas, ny, Pennsylvania..\u00a0 That was fun because I had folks in the room with me. <\/p>\n<p>Later in the day, I had another strange filming thing. I&#8217;d agreed to do a talk for soem folks in another part of IBM.. this one had to be recorded.. so I gave a talk just staring at a camera&#8230; that&#8217;s SO hard to do, because without folks in the room there&#8217;s no love coming back. Once again I have to say that the worlds move to virtual events really misses out on the importance of human contact..\u00a0\u00a0 At least I had the two awesome camersa\/sounds guys.. peter and mark.. in the room to talk to.<\/div>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/oct0209\/oct0209002.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\">After work I met with a guy named Wally to sell him my old sell phone. It&#8217;s for his daughter&#8217;s birthday tomorrow.. We agreed to meet in a mostly empty grocery store parking lot..We both got out of our cars. I handed him an unmarked box, and he handed my a fistfull of money.. It looked so much liek a drug deal that I photographed it in case I have to arrest myself later. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/oct0209\/oct0209007.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\">From there we headed to Shelburn for Gabe&#8217;s soccer game.. He was playing today.. all of his team was.<\/div>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/oct0209\/oct0209014.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\">Watching Gabe play was fun.. and It certainly felt like fall out there . Even the geese said so !.<\/div>\n<p><\/center><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i147.photobucket.com\/albums\/r319\/johncohn\/oct0209\/oct0209008.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Not much else to report&#8230; I have been putting some time in this evening to upgrading the &#8216;Father&#8217;s Forever&#8217; website I help run in Boston. Fathers-forever is a group of dad&#8217;s that I belong to who have all had childeren that have died. We call it the worst club in the world. It is that.. but it&#8217;s also a wonderful group of guys.\u00a0 We&#8217;re just starting a blog about dealing with grief after the loss of a child. I know many folks who read this blog have told me about their own losses.. If you are a member of this same terrible &#8216;club&#8217;&#8230; you may want to check out http:\/\/fathers_forever.org<\/p>\n<p>Well.. thats all for today.. I predict an interesting day tomorrow. If it is.. I&#8217;ll let you know !<br \/>Gnite folks, Gnite Sam<br \/>-me<\/p>\n<p>Post-post&#8230; \u00a0 I just saw on Google that today is the birthday of<\/p>\n<p>Mahatma Gandhi (whose name is so revered that it appears in Firefox&#8217;s<\/p>\n<p>spell checker). Gandhi has always been one of my favorite heroes.. He<\/p>\n<p>said one of the things that has guided me for many years\u00a0\u00a0 Literally<\/p>\n<p>guided me&#8230; because it&#8217;s written on someone&#8217;s door between my office<\/p>\n<p>and the front door. &#8220;&#8230; <a title=\"Click for further information about this quotation\" href=\"http:\/\/www.msplinks.com\/MDFodHRwOi8vd3d3LnF1b3RhdGlvbnNwYWdlLmNvbS9xdW90ZS8yNzE4NC5odG1s\">You must be the change you want to see in the world.<\/a>&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Happy birthday Gandhi gee !<\/p>\n<p>ps.. I just read that Gandhi also said\u00a0 <a title=\"Click for further information about this quotation\" href=\"http:\/\/www.msplinks.com\/MDFodHRwOi8vd3d3LnF1b3RhdGlvbnNwYWdlLmNvbS9xdW90ZS8xMjczLmh0bWw=\">I believe in equality for everyone, except reporters and photographers.<\/a> \ud83d\ude42 \n<\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The show&#8217;s finale last week marked one of\u00a0 the peaks of unnormalcy in my life.. Now Little by little, my life is getting back to some semblance of routine.\u00a0 I wake up, run, go to work, come home.\u00a0 eat, blog sleep in a pleasantly predictable rhythm.\u00a0 Not every conversation or email is about The Colony &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/2009\/10\/03\/friday-night-little-by-little\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Friday night &#8211; little by little<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1445","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1445","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1445"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1445\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1445"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1445"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1445"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}