{"id":915,"date":"2008-10-15T11:22:00","date_gmt":"2008-10-15T15:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/2008\/10\/15\/tuesday-night-andrew-levitts-birthday\/"},"modified":"2008-10-15T11:22:00","modified_gmt":"2008-10-15T15:22:00","slug":"tuesday-night-andrew-levitts-birthday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/2008\/10\/15\/tuesday-night-andrew-levitts-birthday\/","title":{"rendered":"Tuesday night &#8211; Andrew Levitt&rsquo;s birthday"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"pBlogBody_441130290\" class=\"blogContent\">\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t    Today my friend Crolyn sent me a pointer to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.msplinks.com\/MDFodHRwOi8vZnJlYWtvbm9taWNzLmJsb2dzLm55dGltZXMuY29tLzIwMDgvMTAvMTQvbXktc29uLWFuZHJldy13b3VsZC1oYXZlLXR1cm5lZC0xMC10b2RheS8=\">today&#8217;s entry in Steven Levitt&#8217;s blog<\/a>. Steven co-wrote the book &#8216;Freakanomics&#8217; which is one of my all time favorite non-fiction books.&nbsp;&nbsp; Today would have been Steven&#8217;s son Andrew&#8217;s 10th birthday. . Andrew died ajustr after his first birthday of meningitis.. His post today was really touching.. he wote.. <\/p>\n<p><small class=\"post-date\" id=\"day_14\">October 14, 2008,&nbsp; 10:59 am<\/small><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"post-title\">My Son Andrew Would Have Turned 10 Today<\/h2>\n<p class=\"post-author\">By <span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.msplinks.com\/MDFodHRwOi8vZnJlYWtvbm9taWNzLmJsb2dzLm55dGltZXMuY29tL2F1dGhvci9zbGV2aXR0Lw==\" title=\"Posts by Steven D. Levitt\">Steven D. Levitt<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t.. &#8211;> end post-info &#8211;><\/p>\n<div class=\"post-content\">\n<p>My son <strong>Andrew<\/strong> would have turned 10 today.  <\/p>\n<p>I usually try to say a little something about him on the blog around this time of year.<\/p>\n<p>This year, I commemorate Andrew through the words of a new friend, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.msplinks.com\/MDFodHRwOi8vd3d3Lm1tbS51Y2FyLmVkdS9wZW9wbGUvbGF0aGFtLw==\"><strong>John Latham<\/strong><\/a>. In his day job, Latham is a leading climate scientist. He also <a href=\"http:\/\/www.msplinks.com\/MDFodHRwOi8vd3d3LmRhaWx5Y2FtZXJhLmNvbS9wb2RjYXN0cy9zY2llbmNlLXBvZGNhc3QvMjAwNy9tYXkvMTIvam9obi1sYXRoYW0tbmNhci1zY2llbnRpc3RzLWFuZC1wb2V0Lw==\">moonlights as a poet<\/a>.  <\/p>\n<p>I generally don\u2019t have much appreciation for poetry. I have to<br \/>\nadmit, when Latham pulled a book of verse he had written out of his<br \/>\nbriefcase and handed it to me, I would have told him to keep it if that<br \/>\nhadn\u2019t seemed incredibly rude.<\/p>\n<p>But it turns out that, like me, John Latham had a son who died. The poems in the book, entitled <a href=\"http:\/\/www.msplinks.com\/MDFodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJsYWNrbW91bnRhaW5wb2V0LmNvLnVrL2pvaG5fbGF0aGFtLmh0bQ==\"><em>Sailor Boy<\/em><\/a>, are dedicated to his son.<\/p>\n<p>These wonderful poems transported me back to the time of Andrew\u2019s<br \/>\ndeath in a way I never could have imagined. I would never want to stay<br \/>\nin that state permanently, but nonetheless it is a gift to be able to<br \/>\ngo back and visit once in a while. As time passes, it gets harder and<br \/>\nharder to reach that place.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps my favorite poem in the collection (although it is an odd one) is the one I\u2019ve reproduced here:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>Feast<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She cuts in before I can explain.<br \/>\n<em>Yes, I recollect your booking:<br \/>\nThree-tier cake. July.<br \/>\nMarinated prawns and quiche.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I say we have to bring it forward.<br \/>\nIt wasn\u2019t my reception, but my son\u2019s.<br \/>\nNot his wedding, now.<br \/>\nHis funeral.<\/p>\n<p>At last she breaks the silence.<br \/>\n<em>How about some nice pork pies?<br \/>\nFolk eat more when they\u2019re sad.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I hear you laughing. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Andrew, we still miss you every day.<\/p>\n<p>Addendum: Thanks so much to all the kind folks who posted comments below; they were profoundly moving.<\/p>\n<p>I posted a comment there:<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<ul class=\"commentlist\">\n<li class=\"clearfix\" id=\"comment-802143\">\n<div class=\"index\">20.<\/div>\n<div class=\"commentmetadata\">\n  October 14th,<br \/>\n  2008<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.msplinks.com\/MDFodHRwOi8vZnJlYWtvbm9taWNzLmJsb2dzLm55dGltZXMuY29tLzIwMDgvMTAvMTQvbXktc29uLWFuZHJldy13b3VsZC1oYXZlLXR1cm5lZC0xMC10b2RheS9jb21tZW50LTgwMjE0Mw==\" title=\"\">2:10 pm<\/a>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"comment\">\n<p>Steven,<br \/>\nMy friend Carolyn just sent me a pointer to your blog. Thanks so much<br \/>\nfor this post. Our beautiful 14 year old son Sam died in Nov. 2006.<br \/>\n(see http:&#8230;.Samstones.org ) Your comment \u2018it is a gift to be able to go<br \/>\nback and visit once in a while.\u2019 rings so true to me.<br \/>\nAs I read about Andrew I had this flash of reading Freakanomics and<br \/>\ncoming to the part about his passing I remember putting the book down<br \/>\nand crying. I couldn\u2019t imagine then what it would be like to lose a son<br \/>\nlike you had. That was before Sam died. Now I still can\u2019t imagine it..<br \/>\nif you know what I mean.<br \/>\nThanks for the pointer to John Latham\u2019s book. Think he\u2019d mind if I<br \/>\ninclude this same poem in the blog I keep for Sam<br \/>\n(http:&#8230;.blog.myspace.com\/johncohn) tonight?<br \/>\nThanks for sharing your thoughts about your son\u2026  Happy birthday Andrew<br \/>\n-jc\n<\/p>\n<p><cite>\u2014 Posted by john cohn      <\/cite><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I was goign to repost that poem.. but I guess I just did&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>Happy birthday Andrew,,, <br \/>Goodnight firneds<br \/>goodnight Sam<br \/>-me<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today my friend Crolyn sent me a pointer to today&#8217;s entry in Steven Levitt&#8217;s blog. Steven co-wrote the book &#8216;Freakanomics&#8217; which is one of my all time favorite non-fiction books.&nbsp;&nbsp; Today would have been Steven&#8217;s son Andrew&#8217;s 10th birthday. . Andrew died ajustr after his first birthday of meningitis.. His post today was really touching.. &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/2008\/10\/15\/tuesday-night-andrew-levitts-birthday\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Tuesday night &#8211; Andrew Levitt&rsquo;s birthday<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-915","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/915","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=915"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/915\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=915"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=915"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/johncohn.org\/base\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=915"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}