The rest of the day was a mix of phone conference calls. I managed to squeeze in a quick haircut. with our friend Deb. She told me today that she’s getting married in June..
Well.. that’s all for tonight.. More tomorrow. Gnite all, gnite Sam..
-me
The rest of the day was a mix of phone conference calls. I managed to squeeze in a quick haircut. with our friend Deb. She told me today that she’s getting married in June..
Well.. that’s all for tonight.. More tomorrow. Gnite all, gnite Sam..
-me
Quiet day.. not much to report. I new I’d be busy today so I snuck out or a snowshoe with Chai around 8:30. I had a call at 9.. which I took out in the woods as Chai and I puffed our way up the hills in the back. The nice thing about my job now is that much of it is on the phone.. why not do it while snowshoeing ?
The trouble is .. I had back to back calls all morning.. which didn’t get me a break to take a shower (which one needs after snowshoeing !) So.. I managed to take a shower during one of those calls… Thanks goodness that picture phones never caught on !
After the Champlain meeting.. one more work meeting then a little manic holiday shopping.. The music and decorations didn’t trouble me too much today. I think I have a muted form of the holiday spirit in me. Sam’s in my thoughts every minute.. So are Gabe and Max… I want to give them a good xmas this year..
Aspects of it surely are… .. but other parts … are too so, so sad
I managed to get to Queen City Steel right before they closed… I’m trying to make a few xmas presents for people.. Can you believe that these guys don’t gift wrap ?!
OK.. not much more to report.. more on the morrow…
Gnite all, Gnite Sam
-me
Busy day today. I managed to get many things done.. but somehow was in a fog just the same. I went in to my Burlington office for the first time in several weeks. I’ve been on-site a few times, but haven’t made it upstairs to my actual desk. been either working from home, traveling in NY, at meeting in town (e.g. Champlain) or on vacation. It felt really weird to be walking around work.. Just like my experience with shopping, I’m observing that I don’t necessarily want to be seen. I catch myself ‘slinking’ down the hall hoping not to run into anyone I know… And not running into anyone I know is sort of impossible for me.. anywhere. I say “I’m observing” this about myself, because I’m trying not to judge which of my current reactions to life are good or bad. They just are.. I’m guessing that my current new shyness is also a little about the season. maybe it will pass.. or maybe this is who I’m becoming.. we’ll see.
Again, my day was productive but not noteworthy… I like these kind of days now. I got home a little late and joined Dines 6PM Yoga class already in progress… She really worked us today… I love that class. When we came back in I listened to a message from Avery about a Sam moment she had yesterday. (You can listen to it here) I’m having and hearing of so many of these wierd coincidences in the past weeks. Our Antennae are up !
While I was recording Avery’s message, I lifted a copy of the message that’s still on our voicemail at home.. (listen here) I like listening to it.. Eventually, I guess we should change it.. but I don’t want to yet. You can even here our old bird Gabby in the background..
Another audio story… I’m trying to get back into the regular meditation practice that I’ve done for years… I was wondering struggling to lie down and do it.. When I finally did last night I realized how deep the associations I had with my old favorite meditation music.. most folks repeat something.. a mantra… to themselves to help them shut out idle chatter in their minds and help them focus . My mantra with this music was always ‘… diane.. max.. sam.. gabe … diane.. max.. sam.. gabe… ‘ . I realize I was avoiding the music .. and my meditation.. because I felt the mantra would make me sad… As soon as I tried it again I found that it actually made me happy. My love for my family is still and will always be whole…
Well.. gotta go and meditate now.. Namaste folks.. namaste Sam.
-me
The good part of doing the shopping was getting some of it done.. and the chance to hang out with Diane for a while.. Around 5 we’d had enough and headed back to Richmond. We picked up Gabe and headed to Williston for dinner at Steve and Ann Marie’s.
We lit the candle and looked at it for awhile and thought of Sam. Oh my son….
It’s so easy to go right to that raw pain.
It was a wonderful evening.. We really enjoyed ourselves.. Life goes on.. and in a way it doesn’t..
-me