We’re still at the house in Killington.. the internet here is pretty shaky… I’m doing it over my cellphone.. so I’ll be brief. We’re staying in a huge house just off the trails. It’s a great place for the kids.. they can ski or board right from here. What’s more, it has a cool macot:

Sam would have dug this place.

   Yesterday everyone was pretty tired. I think we were all asleep by midnight which is unusual for this crowd. . I woke this morning around 8ish  and there was already a big breakfast going

After breakfast, the kids and some of the adults went out to ski/board, but Matt had to stay in the house because of his broken leg.. poor guy. Tim, Diane and I went out snowshoeing.. We hacked around in the woods for awhile but we kept running into houses. . We eventually found a direction that took us away from people . The woods and the snow were beautiful. At one point I got tuck by a fallen tree and fell in to my waist.   As we hiked a weird thing happened to me .. I started seeing an intense red and blue glowing aura (for lack of a better word) over the snow as I walked.  It looked like licks of flame…  It stuck around for several minutes despite blinking, looking away, etc.. Diane couldn’t see it either. Not sure what it was. But  it sure  was pretty..( also pretty freaky). We also found a tree with some great bark scars that looked like eyes:

 Just as we were lcoming out of the woods, we happened to run into Gabe, Sumner and Brittany on a small side trail.. which is a pretty funny coincidence given that there’s 80 mies of trail here.  I realized that I kept looking around for Sam..   again, he would love it here..

    We got back around 12 and everyone started showing up for lunch.. Another big spontaneous meal;  Diane made grilled cheeses and Deb had made some Clam chowder… Delicious  The food had lots of personality !

  After lunch everyone went on their own ways. Diane went skiing with Jen and I stayed behind and slept and read.. It was really peaceful This house has a big TV with cable.. I know that most houses have cable.. but I just couldn’t live with it. It’s not that I hate it .. it’s that I love it. When it’s on, I’m drawn to it.. and can’t do anything else. If we had cable in our house, I’d be useless. I wonder how people who do have TV get anything done…. But they seem to. I kept having to make myself walk away…  

    Luckily this is a big house with lots to look at. I spent some time going through the book shelves.. I really think you can understand a lot about people by looking at what’s on their bookshelves (or Ipods – Ivy J ).. By their books, these folks are in their 70’s, highly educated., politically liberal, have a good sense of humor and are probably Jewish (mom ? dad ? ) ..   Here’s a book I particularly liked seeing.

It’s quieting down now.. Deb was reading us dumb jokes from a book. Now Tim’s teaching folks how to play poker. I Figured I’d write now.. because I’m not sure if I’ll be able to upload tonight..   We’re heading back to Richmond tomorrow.. then coming back to Rutland to pick Max up from the train..  Time to go help with dinner….. Fajitas.. one of Sam’s  favorites,  We’ll hold hands and welcome you in  before we eat, Sam.

-jc

 Ps. Tomorrow’s town meeting.. please remember to vote !

 

 

Once again… Not sure I’ll be able to get to a computer tonight so I’m posting from my blackberry. Gabe Tim and I just got to Killington. S couple of families are renting a house here for a couple of nights so the kids can board. Gabe and I hung out in Richmond today because gabe was still so sick. I ended up sleeping on the floor in the room with him last night because he was having trouble sleeping. He was up every hour or so getting sick. I think he finally fell into a deep sleep around 5 just as Diane was waking up to leave. She needed to come down with the first wave of folks. Gabe and I managed to get back to sleep and slept till 9. He stayed in bed all day with chills abs fever… But he was intent on coming down to Killington tonight. He didn’t want to miss another day on the hill.
Were now at darkside, a snowboarding shop, trying to find a board to rolace the one that was stolen last night. All things considered gabe is in pretty good spirits. I, on the other hand, am best from lack of sleep last night. In a few minutes were heading over to the house to meet up with our friends. It’ll be fun hanging out with folks… If I can stay awake :-).
   We just got to the house.. very limited bandwidth, .. This wll have to be short. I got stuck trying to get up ther driveway. We  couldn’t get the car togo up the hill.. or down the hill…. so I just locked it and left it there. The end of a kind of yucky day.  I got into the house as dinner was nearly ready.. We’re cooking for about 15 folks.. so dinner was a pretty big (and fun) production.. Here’s the under 30 part of our group digging in..

.Sam, you’d love it here.   See you in the woods tomorrow.

-jc

Tough night. I’m sitting on the bed with Gabe who has some sort of stomach bug, poor guy. He has been  pretty miserable for the last hour or so, poor kid.  He seems to be sleeping now which is good. We’re supposed to be leaving tomorrow morning for a 3 day trip with friends to Killington.. But we’ll have to see how he feels in the morning. Gabe getting sick is only part of our trouble for tonight. Shortly before nine Gabe called us from Bolton to tell us his snowboard had been stolen ! What a bummer ! We’d just heard that there were 5 boards stolen yesterday. Gabe’s board is white with skulls on the bottom and is covered with ‘Sam Cohn’ and ‘Sam Forever’ stickers. It’s got to be pretty recognizable. It makes us really sad that someone would take a kids board, especially with the sentimental attachment of the stickers..  Even so.. it’s really no big deal in the cosmic order of things. Things are just things. Our resistance to stuff like this is pretty high at this point. (Gabe just woke up again.. it’s going to be a long night. It’s hard to seem him feeling so crummy).

It’s funny how good stuff comes in with the bad stuff. As we were waiting for Gabe to come down from the mountain with Jen, the members of Sam’s old band, Black Night Vengeance, came by. They’d spent the whole day in a studio recording some songs. The first thing they did after getting out of the studio was to come by to let us hear one of the cuts.. a song about Sam. It sounded phenomenal. . (I’ll  post it and the lyrics as soon as they get a mixed version. ) The guys said they definitely felt Sam there with them while they were recording.. it meant so much to us that they’d make the trip out here at 10PM on a Saturday night to share that with us.

  Speaking of sharing.. Max called tonight from NYC. He was watching the lunar eclipse tonight. We couldn’t see it up here.. I’m glad that he was able to watch it. I think he may even have gotten a picture of it. Max said he’s having a good time being back at Pratt. I know he misses his friends there. Having Max back in NYC even for the week makes me realize how much I would have missed him if he’d gone back to Pratt full time this semester. None of us was ready for him to have done that.

As eventful as the evening has been, the day was pretty quiet.   Four or five kids spent the night here last night after gymnastics.  They all hung out here most of the day which was fun. Around 12, Avery came over with idea of something she wanted to weld.. She’s seen a metal tree sculpture when she and her family were in NYC this week. She brought over a drawing she’d made of it. She and I spent several hours figuring out how make it. We cut 12 18″ lengths of 6mm rod stock and bent them using a torch. We then used the wood stove to anneal part of the wire so we could bend them into branchy looking shapes. We then bundled them all together and Avery welded them together. She’s a better welder than me at this point.  The final product looks a lot like her drawing.   I like making stuff with Sam’s friends.. When I’m doing it.. I think about making stuff with Sam. My workshop is full of projects we started together.  Somehow working with his friends feels like an extension of working with him.

   The last project we were working on was the wall of flattened Red Bull cans.. I’m going to finish that project for you Sam. Want to help ?

-jc

ps. The bread at breakfast yesterday had a hole in the shape of an ‘S’ .. Strange but true….

Today was a good, quiet day. We had heavy snow all day, so it felt very good to be indoors. I worked hard all day and time passed quickly. It still take much longer for me to get anything done. One thing I like about my work now is that folks are so much more willing to share their personal stories with me.   At one point today I had a great IM conversation  with my friend Sybil down in Austin. She shared with me a wonderful song that her friends had written for her when her fiancée passed away 2.5 years ago. I’ll share it with folks as soon as I get the words.   After talking to Sybil, I couldn’t really go beack and do work.-work.. I sifted gears and spent a few hours working on Sam’s SaStone website. I really enjoyed spending a few hours staring at pictures of Sam.. even if they were surrounded by HTML.

The instructor, Ely, is a great guy. He’s a social worker in real life.. we spent a long time talking about dying and healing and gymnastics.. An interesting mix.. My one goal for the  evening was to do a backflip. I’m proud to say that I did a few.. even though I still need to work on my form

.. I also took this movie by doing a flip with the camera in my hand.. It makes me quesy just watching it.

 

After gymnastics,  everyone came over for late dinner and ice cream. There was a pretty good size crow.. It was pretty tame though.. most of the  adults gravitated to the dinner table to work on coloring Mandala’s  It’s very relaxing and cheaper than wallpaper.

    Speaking of drawing.. here’s a picture of Sam’s friend Nate’s new Tattoo.. He had Sam’s Mayan glyphs inked on his arm… (with his parent blessing)..

-jc