Tuesday night – labels

Sometimes I have to really think to find a theme for my day’s .. sometimes  it just  just drops into my lap… today it was the latter.   I had a pretty uneventful morning.. Gabe came home last night after having a fantastic week long vacation with the Louds in Hilton Head. I missed him so much .. It was so nice to have him home.. I was already labeling the day as “good” …

After I got back from takign Gabe to school, i stumbled across the roll of labeling tape i’d misplaced over the weekend.. so I spent 10 minutes finishing up the lastbit of labeling of the bins I’d put in the lab. I do so much love my labeler.. I find anything with a name on it actually stays pretty much organized… while every unlabeld bin quickly becomes an assorted mess.. I finsihed labeling the last of the small parts bins.


Then I did some of he larger and more assorted bins.. Like this one.. i contains chemicals which are relatively non-flammable and fairly non-toxic.. Nothing I would eat, but the kind of chemicals you wouldn’t mind having in your house… I think the label really captures it..

Of course the previous label is only necessary relative to this one..   Though nothing really dangerous here either.

I had some early meetings so I headed off to work.. First thing I saw in the parking lot was this label on a car.. I’m sure it was there for me..

I tromped up to my office … and took a picture of th magnetic message I’d placed on my door.. At this point I hadn’t really made the connection that I was labeling everything today.

I went into my office and got on the phone.. As I talked I was admiring the cool engraving on my new bizzarro desk.. I couldn’t resist taking a picture..

I had some late meetings so I didn’t get home until nearly 7.. Soon after, Rusty and Tyler shoed up.. I’d figured out my theme at that point.. so I labeled them ..

Gabe was there.. so he got labeled too !

Then Brad, Silas and RJ showed up.. Brad told us he had a surprise for us.. He’d gotten himself inked with Sam’s initials … a great label !.. I was so moved by what he did. I can’t believe the love these kids all have for each other and for Sam.. All of these kids mean so much to me..

Here’s a newly shorn Silas… who also told us some good SamStone stories from his recent vacation to Dry Tortuga.

.and a freshly pierced RJ..

It took me a while to pick up on this hole labeling theme for today.. but here’s the lesson… and even though it sounds obvious.. it really came to me tonight.  It made me think about how I am now frequently labeling each day.. or each situation as “good” or “bad”.. or labeling myself as “Sad” or “OK”,   Diane’s advice to me is to just ‘be’.. not to try and simplify down to a simple label like that.. I think I get it….
   OK.. all for now.. gotta sleep…’Nite folks.. ‘Nite Sam
-me

Monday night – Jam for Sam

Folks…
    I’m happy to announce the next Freinds of Sam fund raiser. This Saturday our friend Sam T. has aranged a Skate Jam at Talent Skate park

Jam for Sam !
Come join us for a fundraiser for the “Friends of Sam” 
at Talent Skate Park Sat May 3rd 6-9PM ,
Suggested donation, $10 with skating, $5 without.
Great live music !

All of the funds raised will go to Benefit Abraham, one of the ‘lost boys’ of Sudan who moved to the area after escaping the violence in Sudan. Abraham has a young wife and child who are still in Sudan.. the funds raised by Friends of Sam will help bring over Abaraham’s family and help them get set up on their own..

Please come and help us remember Sam and help make a big difference in a young family’s life !..

That’s about all I have for tonight.. We’re eagerly waiitng for Gabe to walk in the door. He’s been gone for over a week and I miss him like C-R-A-Z-Y. As soon as he comes in I’m goig to stop writing…

He’s goign to wonder what I smell like … Diane and I just took our Van to get detailed. As I wsa cleaning it I found a can of Axe spray that must have been Sam’s.. Liek a dope I sprayed it on myself… It’s a great smell that reminds me of Sam.. But on me.. it stinks !.

Hey.. I think I hear Gabe.. Talk to you all tomorrow. Gnite Sam !
-me

Sunday night – fixin’ to

I’ve spent the whole weekend… actually the whole previous week getting ready to do soemthing.. It’s been a fun and productive week in many ways.. and a very strange week for me in others. It’s been fun just hanging out with Diane.. It’s been hard not havin any of the kids round.. We’ve cleaned and hauled.. and repaired so much in this week while Gabe’s been away.  The old lab the new lab and the pantry are now clean and uncluttered.. The lab in particular is a thing of beauty.. it’s all ready for… what ? I found that work to be easy to start, fulfilling and engaging.. but the moemnt I sat down to try and work on my day job stuff.. or the paper I’m writng.. I feel like I hit a brick wall. it’s liek I’m enjoying getting ready to wrok.. but when I try to execute.. I’m stuck.
   I’ve tried to shake  myself out of tat mood and mode several times this weekend.. Diane and I started the day with a nice short and fast hike on the Cattamount trail with the dogs

Just before 9 Diane and I headed down to New Haven Vt for a late breakfast with Homer and Mary.. We’d been trying to get together for months.. and here was the opportunity. We Homer and I were thinking of going to an auction of machine tools at UVM.. but opted to stay home and save money together, instead.

One other purpose of th visit was to take our whirligig in for repairs. it managed to shake itself to pieces in the high winds over the last 2 days.. from the look of it, it through a fan blade.. then vibrated itself to pieces.. Homer has promised to nurse it back to health for us.

We moved inside for breakfast. Homer took charge and made the pancakes. it was really nice talking to those guys. We shared stories on what brought us to Vermont and how we met our life partners

One thing we also talked about was the plaque that we’re making for Sam’s Musical Soul Guitar givaway. Jen is making us some hand painted tiles to inlay in it.. Homer is helping with the plaque itself. We discussed the options of wood vs. metal natural vs. colored, straight vs.curvey. I  love watching how Homer thinks.

We looked at some of Homer’s older pieces for ideas. We really liked the frame on this cute older picture of Homer and Mary’s daughter Raye

Homer came up with a plan for the plaque.. then it was time for us to head back home. Before we did.. I had to take a look around at all of Homer’s cool stuff. his house is like a museum.

I likd this post card he had on his ‘fridge.. Resonated deeply with me today.

I also liked this freaky stainles stell mirror ball in their pool.

Ans the little caged alien guy

And the bent wood shed…

And the scary snake/camel dude

Or tis shelf of wax heads…

It was great spending time with Mary and Homer.. I always come away from their house creatively charged.

I channeled that creativity into some pretty basic repair items when I got home.. I  rebuilt and reglazed the window that blew out of the upstairs bathroom window.

And I repaired the broken rocker on our old rocking chair..

Towards evening Mason and Mo-walka came buy wit the new and improved Rusty !.. Rusty has been out west in Durango Colorado at school. He’s realllllly lving it. It was great to see him.. and her about how much he loves his school. He cut his hair which is freaky ! He looks good !

We started talking about asparagus.. which reminds me to tell an interesting.. if somewhat gross story from dinner last night… and a few nights before.   If you’re like me.. eating asparagus has a strange impact on your… uh.. excreta… If you know what I mean.. then you know what I mean.. If you don’t , it means that  you’re one of the 60 % of humans who can’t experience what I’m talking about. I originally believed it was a metabolic difference which either did or did not allow a certain family of sulfur containing chemicals (mercaptins) that pass through your kidneys undisturbed when you eat asparagus.  I’ve since learned that the chemical passes through everyone’s   kidneys.. What makes the difference is that 60% of humans lake the gene that allows them to smell these compounds. For those 40 % of us who can smell that chemical.. it’s very distinctive. I found in Wikipedia that the French Author  Marcel Proust  claimed that asparagus “…transforms my chamber-pot into a flask of perfume.”  .. For you other 60% .. you don’t know what you’re missing.
   An on that strange note… I think I’ll sign off.. Gnite all…. Gabe.. can’t wait to see you tomorrow..  Gnite Sam..
-me

Saturday evening – clean the lab

I was totally focus on leaning out the new lab today. The lab is a smallish room in the barn under Diane’s yoga space. It’s where I keep all of my electronics and weird science stuff .. My personality.. my ego.. is totally connected to that space.. which s why it disturbed me so much  that it’s been such a mess over the last few months. Diane and I have been cleaning daemons over the last several days. We’ve thrown out a ton of stuff.. and given a bunch more away .. We are trying very hard to un-clutter our lives. . I couldn’t find my camera for most of the day.. so I don’t have the normal play-by play pictures that Id normally have.. … it wasn’t much to see.. I walked in there about 7:30 this morning… and left about 5:30 PM. I fund so many things I’d forgotten I had.. then through them out !  by the end of the day the placed looked like a place whee you could work !

All the test equipment was neatly stacked…

And the electronic components were neat and snug in their closable bins.

Ans the machines were neatly spaced on the workbench.   I Know that it will only stay in this pristine state for a day or two.. but I’m going to enjoy that day or two very much !

We took off around 5:30 to go to hire ground. Our house band :Forever they Said’ was playing in a Hardcore Festival at Higher Ground tonight.  Three of the band guys.. Pucket , Nick and Jeff  Thad been in Sam’s band Black Knight Vengeance.  This week.  .. Pucket, Jeff, Nick. Jordan and Kyle had been practicing so hard for fear of sucking.. and it payed off.. They were Amazing !.. They opened the show and instantly … had the crowd flailing.

I could sense Sam moshing with the rest of the kids there.. It was a short 20 minute set.. and I just loved being there. I was so proud of the guys !! They really, really sounded good !.

Pucket wore the Sam shirt he designed to the show…  That made me really happy !

Once the ‘Forever they said” set was over, we took off.. We had to get back to our friend’s Bill and Gina had invited us for dinner. Gina’s brother Kevin is up visiting… He’s a very cool guy. Very smart and very interesting.

Bill and Gina’s last name is Haddock.. and they served us Haddock.. very convenient

We had lively discussions about cosmology, biology, snowboarding, astronomy, climate and personalities. I alway love talking to these guys.

Right now I’m having trouble staying awake.. so I’m going to stop here.. More tomorrow.. more cleaning planned.. who-hoo.. Talk to you then.. you tomorrow, Sam !
-me