Saturday evening – The calm before/after the storm

Like most folks on the East Coast of the US. we sit here tonight waiting for Hurricane Irene.. Diane and I closed  a few windows.. but aside from that, we’re content to let the storm have it’s way with us.    This brings back many cool memories from growing up in Houston when we’d be glued to the tv waiting for reports on an impending storm.. .. we’d get out candles, buy batteries.. fill the tubs with water.. My favorite thing was taping up the big plate glass windows in our den.. The idea.. I think.. was that the tape would somehow keep the shards of glass from flying around if the window was broken by a flying tree limb.. or car.. or cow or something. I knew better, though.. I knew that the simple act of putting tape on the windows appeased (or angered) the storm gods such that the storm would either dissipate.. or would land on some less (or more) fortunate town.

My memory may be a little warped here.. but it seems to me that the worse the storm was supposed to be the more likely it was to be a dud   Life can be like that.. expectations are such a dangerous thing..

 

That’s not to say that the storms did not sometimes deliver a good show.. I remember many days of watching the huge oaks in the backyard  whipping around.. I remember they looked like they were fighting.. I remember huge sheets of rain.. then the weird calm greenish light as the eye of the storm went over..

 

I also remember the days we got off from school for storms.. I always have told my kids that they have it pretty good that they get off for snow.. it’s mush more fun to go and play in the snow … than it was to go play in the hurricane..

 

Though I do remember one funny story.. we were off from school  one day for a hurricane.. in the afternoon the bayous that drained Houston were all at flood stage.. for some crazy reason a couple of us ran a rope across one of the big ditches that drained into the bayou.. and used it to haul ourselves back and forth through the churning water…. That same stunt got Kingsley Dye pulled into a culvert once.. (he was rescued)   Anyway,  I’ll never forget seeing all the toilet paper left on the grass the next day where we were swimming.. .. the sewers had all overflowed and we were swimming in…. oh never mind..

The reports f the storm caused our friends Steve and Mathew from PA to abort their Long trail hike today.. so we went and rescued them.. they’re here tonight waiting on the storm with us..   which is making the waitign a little more festive..

There’s a funny contrast between this peculiar calm before Irene.. and what happened earlier.. This morning, our good friends the Townsends moved out.. Ian, Matt and Hannah are headed off to college in Montreal..

Since last November, various combination’s of Deb, Ian. Hannah and Britt have been staying with us.. which we have really loved.. now everyone is heading off into the next chapter of their lives..   So are their.. and our many friends..   The beginning of the school year is always a time of change for us.. people scatter and get back into their non summer lives. . We go back to the three of us here in the house.. it’s peaceful.. quiet..and sometimes a little too quiet.. but we adjust…. we have to.. no choice.. and we wouldn’t really ave it any other way..

 

OK.. time to get going..

more tomorrow.. good luck with the storm.. stay dry everyone !

 

note all, nite sam

-me

 

Friday night – talking/listening

This always happens to me.. I’ve just come back from nearly three weeks of seeing new stuff, new people, new food.. etc.. I’ve gone from 100 MPH to zero in just a day.. I’m loving being home,.. I’m even enjoying reconnecting at work.. but I always go through a sort of  ‘focus backlash’ .. when I come back from and adventure.. Nothing seems to make the radar of interest.. everything  is ‘nice’.. quite.. unremarkable.. yet.. somehow I feel compelled to write ,,, I’ve committed to myself to write every day until Nov23.. (which will be 5 years of every night since 3 days after Sam’s death)    But maybe every day doesn’t merit recording..

I was thinking of that today when my freind S. made a blog post on her new blog site inside our company. S made the observation that of the 3000+ blogs inside our company.. most had only single digit readership. I’m sure that trend is echoed  outside the company…. So many people talking.. and not so many people listening. it would be interesting to know how many folks do exactly as I am doing now and spill their guts online every night. with maybe no one reading.. What’s even stranger to consider is that everything we all right becomes part of the permanent record of our culture.. Maybe sometime in the distant future all these words we stick out there will be sifted through by archeologists to extract something about our lives…

they would discover that I had a a really nice and quiet day…

If I knew who they would be, I’d tell them that directly..

gnite all, nite sam

-me

 

 

 

THursday evening – Ahhhhhhhhh

Ahhhhh.. I’m home.. nothing interesting to report and that’s just SO good for me.. I’ve been out of town for nearly 3 weeks.. .,and had so many adventures…. a day with nothing but flying..and seeing my family is absolute heaven….

My family .. my doggies….. my house… my desk…. I don’t need anythign else..

 

Friends from afar showing up tonight.. enjoying the brief moment of ‘nothing going on’…

 

hope its the same for all of you

 

nite all, nite sam

-me

 

Wednesday eveing – Homeward bound / small world

 

 

Greetings from Ezeiza airport in Buenos Aires. Gabe and I are waiting on our Red eye flight back to the US.. We had a great last day down here.. Last night Gabe and I took the Subte out to Old Polermo and met up with our freind Hannah B. We all went out to a really cool Peruvian restaurant..  It was so great !!

Aftwerards we wnt back to Hannahs ot meet her roomies and her house mom.. Thay are all great.. and so was the place !

Today Gabe and I went for a run .. then we took a bus out to the colorful area of Boca.. It’s near Boca stadium.. we even saw Diego Meradonna’s sar in the pavement outside the statdium..

 

We then walked aroudn the cool old town of Boca

Ooops.. we’re boarding .. so I need to go. but before I do.. we had the most amazing small world conicidence while in oca.. We were walkign aroudn a small set of stores when someone called my name. it was my freind Fernando from Millbrook New York.. Fenernando and I work together.. and have been tlakign about organizing a trip down to South America.. Th efact that we were both here.. in BA.. In that same store is a total one in a billion cooincidence.. he didn’t know I was here.. I didn’t know he was here..

 

His daughter even lives in Winooski and goes to UVM. !.. We spent a nice hour getting to now Fernando’s family … He and his wife Diane met while she was in the peace corp and he was living in Columbia !  We had a beer and some snacks.. and got to watch with soem Tango folks.. Gabe, Fenrnando and Fernando’s daughter even got to pose with them !

Ooops.. boarding now.. gotta run.. Here’s gabe prepping for a 9 hour plane flight.. UGH…

it’s bbeen such a great trip .. It’s been so much fun hanging out with Gabe..

OK.. more tomorrow

note all, nite sam !

-me