Friday night – thinktank

Midnight and just back from a thinktank night. 3 friends and I had made plans to get together and brainstorm on a project we are all collectively working on. The only ground rule was that anything is possible.

anyway…..

Last nights brainstorming was really was my favorite kind. 4 folks with very different skills, backgrounds and ideas co
Ing T the same problem. We were at it for 5 hours but the time just flew by. At one point we even got some material out and started experimenting with them at the table . We took turns walking across the crowded restaurant to see the effect from across the room I even asked some other diners to offer opinions. I hope we weren’t obnoxious !
By the time dessert came around we’d come up with a few cool themes and discarded a few others. It definitely had been a worthwhile discussion… And a really awesome meal (Vermont cheese plate, oysters, sheep cheese dumplings , polenta, homemade ice cream and flourless chocolate cake and dirty martinis from Vermont made vodka) yummy and rich….I think I’m going to eat light today !

Ok time to get up… Again sorry for the late post
More later in the day … Hope to go play in the snow that’s finally here !

G’morning all, g’morning Sam
-me

Thursday night – too late to blog

Midnight at the airport and just got back to Burlington after a whirlwind trip to see clients in dc and ny. I’m really liking that aspect of my new role. It’s so cool hearing different smart folks talking about their view of our (or their) industry. Ran into my friend mike on the plane and enjoyed catching up with him. We had fun comparing new jobs
Gotta finish up as Diane’s about to pick me up. Ah one note about the day. It was three years ago today that I stepped off a plane and was blindfolded and put in a van… And so started my time on The Colony. Great memories
Ok. Time for bed
Nite all , nite sam
-me

Wednesday night – Lent

Greetings from Dulles airport.. I’m down in DC today at a client meeting.. Lots of smart people.. interesting topics.. I’m loving my job now.. and happy for that..

At  lunch today I heard someone talking about Ash Wednesday .. I have to  confess, even though my family is half Catholic.. I really don’t understand the rituals  of Fat Tuesday, Ash Wednesday., Maunday Thursday. but I find them fascinating. I really approve of the Mardi Gras idea of partying before periods of self denial.. Not sure I get the self denial part .. I do know that a part of Ash Wednesday is deciding what you’re going to give up to .. I’ve been thinking about that all day..>  A couple of months go I remember writing on a radio piece I’d heard on the ‘Wisdom of Quitting’ .  In that spirit.. I’ve been thinking about what I would quit for Lent if I were going to quit something. I know you’re supposed to give up soemthing you like.. but you can go without. Things like chocolate or sushi come to mind.. but those are too easy. Actually, my two real thoughts here are giving up 1) worry and/or 2) saying yes. ,, Now you might say that neither of those meet the criteria “…soemthing you like.. but you can go without” .. but I’d argue they do.. I am addicted to both…..

  1. On Worry.. when there’s nothing to worry about.. I make stuff up.. it fills some deep need in me to occupy my mind with all the bad things that can happen. It’s wired into my chromosomes.,, maybe wandering the desert for 50 years.. and the trials my tribe has faced since.. have  gave all my kindred a deep need to worry about something.    Maybe I can just shut that off for a month and see what happens. I have tired this before.. with some success.. so why not ?
  2. On ‘saying yes’.. I’m totally hooked on ‘new’.. I love new problems and new people.. so much so that I often pt more effort into ‘new’ than into nurturing the relationships I already have.. or finishing the projects I’ve always taken on. T  It’s like an emotional Ponze scheme.I use  the promise of the next new thing to get me through  the hard work of managing what I have on my plate. That leads to worry (see number 1)  I’ve been at this so long that the world has found a way to keep presenting me with fresh new opportunities for ‘Yes’ ..    What would happen if I said.. ‘no’ .. or even ‘maybe’ just for a month…. Or maybe even just waited 24 hours before saying ‘yes’.    I’ve promised myself I’d try to do this in the past.. But somehow.. I’ve always lost my resolve..

Ooops.. plane is boarding.. guess I’d better decide.. Hmmmm

I think I’m going for numeber 2 for my fantasy give it up for Lent pattern.. Limited ‘Yes’  for the next 30 days.. Who knows.. maybe thta will help with worry too..

 

OK.. more later..

nite all, nite sam

-me

ps. Check out these geat pictures of Gabe on the MMU website.. 

 

 

 

Tuesday night – Fat Tuesday

Fat Tuesday, What a name for a day. ?! . I never really new it as that.. I grew up thinking about Mardi Gras. My fathers family had deep ties to New Orleans.. My great grandfather settled there from somewhere in Eastern Europe. My grandfather was raised there until his family moved to Central America.. First to Nicaragua.. and then to Honduras,  were my Dad and his brother, Bird,  spent their early years. When my Dad’s family moved back to the US, they lived in Georgia until he graduated from High  School.. Sometime after that the family moved back to New Orleans. That’s where my grandparent, uncle, great aunts and uncles all lived until they died. I still have my Aunt Brig. and a bunch of great cousins there.

I remember New Orleans being about a 5 hour flat and hot drive from Houston.. It wasn’t too bad in the winter.. I remember times when It might actually be in the 40’s or 50’s.. I also remember as we got closer to the city, the road went over swamps.. I remember great cajon food.. before cajon food was something you could find anywhere..   I can even remember folks speaking cajon and creole on the radio.. but that was back in the 60’s..

It was a strange, almost religious thing for us to go to Mardi Gras. .. I can’t even remember how many times we went.. it seemed like every few years.. but I suspect it was much  less than that.  My uncle Bird was really into it. He was part of a Krew.. a team of folks that put a float into the parade. I remember thinking how cool it was that here we were in the deep south watching a parade with white people. black people and even jewish people like us  all dressing up and throwing stuff to the crowd. We’d sit there shouting “throw me something mister !” . then fight each other for what came our way.  I liked the cheap plastic beads.. bu what we really treasured were the dabloons.., cheap plastic discs in a variety of shiny colors. Each had the mark of the Krew who through them. My uncle Bird had books an books of them.. some , I guess.. were rare..   He always showed us those with pride.

I also remember eating this weird cake.. King cake, they called it.. i had a plastic toy cooked into it somewhere. it was lucky if ou got the toy.. thinking back, it was lucky that you didn’t choke.. I remember going through the French Quarter with my folks.. We stop by and eat oysters and poboys at Mothers.. maybe get dark, bitter  coffee with chikoree and bignets at Morning Call… I remmeber it snowing once in Jackson Square..on Mardi Gras.. Snow in New Orleans ?!?!  My dad even took us into some of the strip clubs.. now that’s a real treat for a preteen kid !!

I guess the whole idea of Fat Tuesday  is to get everythign out of your system before the sterner time of Lent.. I never really ‘got’ Lent.   Given that Jews are raised to feel guilty all the time, I never quite understood the need to set aside a specific time for it.. . I always thought it particularly  funny that New Orleans.. a city with real party in its blood ,made the show of celebrating before Lent…. which they seemed to party through anyway. Now that I think of it.. many places around the world have something like that.. Carnival, Fasching, Fettisdagen.. Gosh.. How come more places in the US don’t have soemthing like Mardi Gras ?!

Anway.. Happy Mardi Gras everyone.> As they say. laissez les bon temps roulez !

 

nite all , nite sam

-me