Oy… Long , long , long hectic day.. I ended up cutting my work trip to nyc short because i need to be with my dad and mom. Dads still in the hospital…
I cut out of my meeting at 4:30 anid tried to catch a cab to penn station. Graffic was bad and most cabs were full. I got a pretty good deal on a bike cab froma. Really funny guy.. We got their faster than by car..and the sightseeing and conversation were awesome..
So i took a rain to south station in boston.. Then got on a train to west nattick.. Which then broke down inback bay.. They towed it back to south station.. Where thye loaded us on to another train.. They then announced that train would be an express to framinngham.. And kicked us off until the last train which was to have left in 20 minutes… I got off.. Butt hen realized i could take a cab from framingham as well as i could from west nattic.. So i jumboed back on…..
And here i am
Now I'm waiting in the rain at the Framingham think station for about 45 minutes for a taxi it's coming. No the strange thing is I don't feel too bad.
I'm almost there
Life is strange.. Sometimes good strange..and soemtimes must strange..
I had dinner with max tonight.. which was such a wonderful pleasure.. There’s nothing like talking to an an adult son. he is so much his own person.. a wonderful. thoughtful and compassionate guy. We spent the evening easting sushi, drinking saki, drinking beer and working on our two lives as only tow folks with common genes can.. we’re so the same yet so different..
We came up with a concept tat seemed so right and prescient to both of our lives.. It s variant of something that Danie has taught us both. She often reminds me that folks either  come from ‘fear’ or from ‘love’. that’s true.. Mac and I figured out that there is an orthogonal axis.. that forms a basis set.. where the eigenvalues are love and strength
We determined that all human behavior could be put on that axis.. we tested it by putting individuals and their actions on that graph.. and it seemed to hold….
including us and our love ones.. Strength + love was compassionate leadership. strength + fear was bullying. weakness + love was dependency and weakness +Â fear was victim hood..
This was incredibly important to me as I think about my work.. these days and my relationship to it..
ok.. typing this .. I realize what I’m saying here might not make perfect sense.. but drinking beer ll night with your oldestson, whom you love deeply. i ample excuse for that.. don’t you think ?
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