TOday we held the funeral for my wonderful Aunt Brigette.. or Brig as we called her.. She was an amazing woman.. funny, snart.. and opinionated !.. She was born rin Lens France ight as WWII was staring i. Her parents moved to Paris where her parents were deported by the Nazis. She spent her first 2 years in a concentration camp. THe sotry I know is that her mom managed to hide herweddign ring and used it to bribe a guard to let her and Brig go.. they were found cominog out of a forest by a Swiss guy on a bike. I knw they escaped to a couple of different countries… and somehow ended up in Monroe Louisiana. THere she met my uncle JM (Bird) y dad’s brother. THey were married in 1964 or 1965 (I think) .. I remember there wedding in Monroe Brig was such a beautiful bride. I must have been 5 . I remember going in to a liquor store with my dad and grandpa Dave.. Dave and the liquor store guy immediately recognized oen another. My grandfather was born in Nicaragua.. and moved to Honduras.. thats where he lived when my dad was born.. My grandpa and grandmother came up to Georgia for him to be born.. then they went back to La Ceiba Honduras where my dad and his brother lived until my dad was 3.
She and her mom were really cool and exotic.. I think they spoke French to each other.. or it might have been German.. I wouldn’t have known at the time. Brig and my Uncle raised two kids, Lisa and Jeff. and also my cousin Leslie who was from JM’s first marriage to Carol.. who we were also close to. We grew up with Leslie Lisa and Jeff.. we saw more of Leslie since Carol moved to Houston.
Brig and JM were super social.. they were active in Touro Synagapog where my Grandpa as the President.. then JM became President of the brotherhood and Brig was President of the Temple sisterhood. .
We would see them pretty often in NoLa.. It was always fun.. Bird was super in to Mardi Gras,,, he collected doubloons and had them in albums.. each one had a story.
My uncle died in 1998.. I remember my folks were in Alaska on a cruise when they heard..it was tough..
Brig continues to live in their home in Metarie until it was destroyed by Hurricane Katrina.. I remember walking through what was left of the house.. it was down to the studs.. all the sheetrock was waterlogged and had been torn down.. it was just a shell. .. it eventually was taken down like the rest of the neighborhood.
Jeff and Lisa had kids and that became Brigs life.. whe was a wonderful grandma.. and so proud of her family. She eventually moved up to Mandeville across lake pontchartrain to be with lisa and her family..
We always loved seeing Brig.. she was always so funny.. always remembered birthdays.. kept up on where everyone was..
Im really going to miss her
This morning my cousin in law Brett and his granddaughter Kennedy met me in the lobby of the hotel. Unfortunately my cousin Lesslie got really sick yesterday and she didnt feel well enough to go with us this morning. I know she wanted to be there…
It was really nice to hang out with Brett. and get to knwo Kennedy.. shes 10 and super sweet and poised. I really enjoyed gettign to know her. Kennedys Mom Rachel ,Leslie and Bretts daughter died in 2017 of opioid use disorder.. Kennedy now lives in Utah with her dad.. and comes to stay with Brett and Leslie every summer.. tehy have a great relationship..
The service today was very simple.. only about 15 of us all mostly her kids, grandkids and great grandkids.. and a couple of close friends. we Were was in Hebrew Rest cemetery.. same place my uncle, my grandparents and my great grandparents are buried.
Brett and I took turns holding a phoe using Facetiem so Leslie could watch the service..
The service was short.. and really meaningful. The Rabbi was from Touro.. same place my family has been part of for nearly a century. .. he new Brig well.. and told soem fun and heartwarming stories..
it was hot.. really,. really hot. and humid . I know this is weird to relate.. but when they lowered Brig’s coffin .. next to JM’s .. . the water table is so high there was water at the bottom of the grave.. it was kind of cool.
We then all shoveled dirt into the grave.. and said good bye..
Afterwards we took a walk around the cemetery to see the graves of my n
grand parents madelyn and dave, , my great grandparents julius and hannah ..
then peepole left to go to to a reception that Brigs best freinds Daughter was holding. I couldnt go because I had to catch a plane. I spent a couple of minutes cooling off in the car with Cuasin Brett and Kennedy. as I waited for the Uber. It was great seeing gettign soem tiem with them.. I was sad not have gotten to see Leslie
Rest in Peace Brig !!!
nite all, nite sam
-me