Just off a call with my father’s forever group. It’s a group of dads who have had children who died. I know t sounds weird.. bit I really love these meetings . It’s really good to be able to trade stories with folks with this very hard experience. We trade stories about our kids both living and dead.. trade stories sad and funny stories ( there really are family stories)

We talked today about how we answer the question ‘how many kids do you have’ .. and what to say to someone who expalins they didn’t bring up Your kids name because they “didn’t wanna remind you”…

It’s actually really nice to have people you can talk to you like that.

It’s hard when we get a new member… But it feels like a Great service when we can help them in small way with something that really can’t be helped

Thanks to my FF friends for being there for me and for each other .

Nite all, nite sam

-me