Tuesday evening – Happy New Year

Folks,
    I’m  too sleepy to write today.. I’ve only had 3 hours sleep since last year. Still, I’d like to take a second to wish you all a good new year..  This has been the toughest year of our lives.. It’s been an amazing one too. We all grown so much and seen our friends grow too.  I am starting this year still deeply sad, yet stronger, more at peace and more purposeful than I’ve ever felt before. I’d like to   thank the many, many people who have cared for our family and help us keep Sam’s spirit alive in the world.

 I know better now  than to wish for anything specific in this year. I’ve seen how the future is rarely like our expectation.  I can, still hope that it’s a year of peace and spiritual growth  for all our friends, family and communities.

Thanks you all so much..  and thank you Sam, for helping us to be strong.

-me

ps. Here’s a version of Auld Lang Syne that I really love.. it’s supposedly the original Robert Burns melody. I probably posted this last year.. but here it is again

Monday Morning – New Years Breakfast Invitation

Folks,
As is our tradition, we’re inviting folks to join us for New Year’s breakfast starting anytime around midnight tonight. Please bring food and/or drink to share if you can,… Bring musical instruments if you’d like… Please pass the invite around. We’d love to see you.. call us at 802-434-3576

-us

Friends…

    It’s now 3:30 AM .. and there are still 20 or so folks in the house. Theres music coming from down below.. but I’m too sleepy to go down and listen.. The day started so long ago… We were all pretty lazy throuh the day.. in a nice  sleepy sort of way.


Diane, Chai and I did manage to get out for a really nice snowshoe in this wonderful powder…

We checekd in on our ‘bird tree’.. Nearly all of the food we’d put on it had already been eaten…

The rest of the day was nice and slow.. The high point was Max coming downstaires after his freind Emma had straightened his hair..

Gabe spent the afternoon up at the mountain.. but was ready to coem down by about 6:30…

Around 8:30 Diane and I picked up Deb and Hannah and went up to Bolton to watch the  the fireworks.. There were lots of our friends up there.

The fireworks started on time at 9. They were pretty spectacular.. it was a small but appreciative crowd.. there were some of the coolest ‘shaped’ burst I’d ever seen.. they even had one that blew up into a happy face.  

I love watching the fireworks up here.. I can think of many times we’ve had the family up here to see them..  They made me think of Sam

When I came home I was feeling pretty sad… I needed to go send a few minutes in Sam’s room. that’s just what I needed.

I spent some time looking at Sam’s artwork.. here’s one I hadn’t really looked at much before.   I like it !

I also spent time look at .. and talking to.. the many pictures in the room.. Here’s one from the mid 2006…   I can connect to myself at the moment this  picture. was taken. . I knew how lucky I was.. I’m glad that I can say that.

Around 10:30 I drove out to pick up Gabe and some friends..  As it got closer to midnight, we all decided to stay here rather than venture out…. I found a place to watch the ball drop in Time Square.   we did the whole 10… 9.. 8… 7… thing.. it was fun..

We toasted the new year with sparkling lemonade…

And lit our candle to invite Sam to be part of the celebration.

The next few hours went as most of our parties.. it was 98% kids.. some in Sam’s room playing video games.. some in other parts of the house talking.. some downstairs playing music.   It wasn’t a big crowd.. but it was a nice crowd..

Just before I came up to bed at 3.. I looked at Chai and saw that she was getting tired too…

It’s about 4 and I just heard Diane serve breakfast.. I better go help out..

I want to wish everyone a happy and healthy new year.. .. I wish we all find the peace we need in our lives.. Happy new year my friends.. Happy new year Sam

-me


Sunday afternoon – Newyearseveeve

I’m writing early so that we can get on the road back to Vermont. We’ve had a very laid back day down here. Around 11 we got it together to get out of the house and over to Linda’s.  Look, .. we made her fridge !.. I just saw this picture on the Tailer’s fridge. I love looking at it..

Linda is working on writing all of their names using pieces of shale.. So far they’ve got ‘Linda’

Linda, David and Andrea climbed into the car with Diane , Chai and me and we drove up the street to a nearby nature preserve.

It was a warm day. barely winter.. we climbed to the top of the hill for a panaramic view of the Chenago Valley.. it was really  great being out in the woods.

Chai loved the run

Andrea did Sam’s name on a rock

We found a an old Vega up where no car should have been… It was covered with bullet holes…  we made up stories of how it got there… and how it got shot up..

Some enterprising squirrel had used the air intake as a larder… It was full of nuts

In fact, the whole woods was full of nuts !

OK… time to pack up… I may write some more for the road… If not. more tomorrow..

Later folks.. travel with us, Sam
-me

Friday night – rail jam

It’s Friday night and we’re getting packed to head to Endicott tomorrow morning. We were going to leave this morning, but we wanted to hang around and watch the Rail Jam the Friends of Sam were throwing tonight,

The extra day was nice.. We got to spend a little extra time with my folks this morning. We got the kids up to say good bye to them… Gabe had been up till 2:30 and max (I thin) till 5.. they were pretty sleepy..

It was nice having them up..

I spent the middle of the day putting the finishing touches on the rail I built for Gabe.  The last steps were putting on the wooden feet.

Before I did I hid some messages under the metal footings. I try to put a secret message like this in everything I build.. It’s fun to find them when I rebuild something years later.

Somehow.. that managed to take most of the day.. before I new it it was 5PM and time for the Rail Jam at Bolton. Ralph had organized the whole thing.. There were 3 categories.. skiers, 14 and below and 15 and above.. They had about 17 kids.. It was great watching them do the rails..   The were three rails.. the down rail that Ralph and his dad, Marc just built, the Sam rail that Sawyer and Neal built and the butter box.

the pictures are a bit wobbly because of the low light… but they look sort of cool, so I’m including them anyway.

I like this blurred one of Gabe.

After the Jam, everyone gathered on the porch to her the winners..

Zack was there too..

Ralph called out the winners.. Gabe came in 3rd in the under 14’s.. Whoo hooo

Luke came in first in the above 15’s.. he got a skateboard deck a case of red bull and $100 .. not bad for a night of fun…  The rest of the take goes to the Friends of Sam for their good works..  These kids are so awesome..

The Jam ended with a prize toss off the porch.. It was a good lead in for the Night Riders competitions that start in a few weeks.

After a bite in the Tavern, I went back to the car to go home and start packing.. I found my glasses in the snow.. this would have been the fourth pair I lost or destroyed this week.. Thank goodness it will only be 3..  BTW. One of the messed up ones was a pair of safty glasses that got  stopped a hot  blob of metal that was coming at my face.. (I always  wear ’em… and that’s why !) 

There were two packages waiting for us at home this afternoon. One was from Stacie. In it was a box from  All Children’s Hospital , the place where Sam went after his accident. They sent us a beautiful silver heart ornament with Sam’s name on it. I could feel my own heart come into my throat when I opened it up. It’s really beautiful..

The second package was from LifeLink, the organization that orchestrated Sam’s organ donations. Inside was a really wonderful letter from ‘Bob’.. the guy who received Sam’s left Kidney. LifeLink has a policy of editing the letters to maintain peoples anonymity on both ends of a transplant.. so they had whited out last names, addresses and phone numbers.. but it didn’t keep the warm grateful message from coming across loud and clear.  Bob has 2 teenage kids. He had been on dialysis for several years and was growing weaker and was unable to travel. Since  his transplant, his health has returned and he’s feeling great. It turns out that Bob has connections to Vermont Thanks to Sam’s strong kidney  he was able to travel up here recently to visit relatives. When he was up here, he climbed Killington and drank a Red Bull in honor of Sam at the top. Not only that, but he sent us the can !!! I reread the letter several times.. I guess there’s no Hallmark Card for a situation  like this..   It’s so wonderful to know that Sam’s strong life energy is helping soemone live out there life fully. Even though there’s great sadness in the situation, I can’t find words to say how good that makes me feel.
Good luck Bob….. (if you’re reading this)  thanks so much for writing.. . Please keep in touch !

Way to go Sam… We all love you. G’nite all..
-me